Friday, February 22, 2013

Share the LOVE






 It is nearly impossible to talk about Vero's adoption without mentioning the place that was her home for the last 5 years before coming home to her "forever family".  That place is Good Shepherd's Fold orphanage in Uganda.  Good Shepherd's Fold (GSF) is nestled between two little villages about 20 km west of Jinja in the Buikwe District.  While one of its primary goals is to share the love of Jesus by meeting the needs of the children in its care, it is so much more than "just" an orphanage.  In addition to caring for the 90 children that reside there, GSF operates a school that serves more than 300 children, provides free medical care to the community through their clinic, and offers humanitarian assistance as well as evangelistic outreach to the surrounding communities.  


Why am I telling you all of this you might be wondering.  I'm telling you because my experience during our brief stay at this place has claimed part of my heart.  Even though we've been home 6 weeks now, a day hasn't gone by that I haven't thought about GSF and the people there.  The missionaries and the children are in my prayers and have consumed my thoughts.  We have poured over pictures of the dear ones we met
 and have prayed for them by name.  

What is it about GSF that has made such an impression? 
 I'll do my best to tell you.    

The missionaries at GSF serve wholeheartedly and give so much of themselves day after day.  They serve with humility, grace, generosity and love.  These people have a passion for the children in their care and invest in their lives in a beautiful and rich way.  They bring the hope of the gospel by living it out and 
by teaching the "least of these." (Matt. 25:31-46)


It's the drastic difference between Ugandan life in comparison with life in the States. I've been moved by coming home to SO much material wealth.  Meanwhile life in Uganda, in so many ways, is so. much. simpler.  Daily life is a struggle to survive for most.  Acquiring basic necessities, like food and water, is an ongoing challenge.  Seeing the way others live (as in the majority of the world's population) has really messed me up.   I can no longer go into my previous favorite stores without feeling literally ill and repulsed by the amount of stuff.  Definition of STUFF - things I've been fooled into thinking I need.  And I've taken the bait, folks, hook, line, and sinker.  Experiencing life on the "other side" has caused me to examine my life and my heart to reveal what I truly value and where I place my hope.  (For more on being messed up in a good way read Jen Hatmaker's book 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against ExcessShane Claiborne's Irresistible Revolution, and Francis Chan's Crazy Love)

 What else has made an impression?  Definitely the children.  Here are just a few of the special children we met.  When you look at their pictures I don't just want you to see a Ugandan child on the other side of the world.  
I want you to look into their eyes and know their names.  


This is Festo, Nicholas and Micah.  
Prayerfully one of these sweet boys will be joining his forever family in America soon.  

This is dear Lilly.  She loves her Bible and definitely has my heart.

This is Jessica.  She came to GSF with her brother and sister Joan (pictured below).  



This is Ishmael.  He is the same age as our Porter (2 1/2) but due to severe malnutrition he is very low in weight for his age and behind developmentally.  With quality care at GSF he is growing in stature and
progressing developmentally as well.  

This is Betty.  Her smile lights up any room. 

This is sweet Matthew, one of the several children at GSF with special needs.  

Whatever the reason and whatever the way, 
God has given me a burden for these children and a passion for the work at GSF. 

This brings us back to my original question.  Why am I telling you?  
I'm telling you because I want you to know about the work at GSF and care about the ministry and people there, too.  I know that on my own I am so very limited to what I'm able to do and give.  But I know - because I've seen it - that when people come together they can make an incredible difference and impact others for good.  

This organization needs the help and support of people like you in order for them to serve these children and their community.  
I'm asking you to consider coming alongside this ministry with me to help those in need. 

What can you do to help?

You can pray - pray for the work being done there, for the missionaries and employees, 
as well as for the children who live at and attend school at GSF. 

You can sponsor a child -  The sponsorship program at Good Shepherd's Fold has three primary goals:
1. To provide a meaningful relationship between each child and his/her sponsor
2. To provide prayer support for each child
3. To provide GSF with the funds necessary to care for each child.  

The cost to sponsor a GSF child is $35 a month.  Each child at Good Shepherd's Fold needs at least 3 sponsors to cover basic expenses.  

For more information on child sponsorship through GSF click HERE

You can give directly to GSF -  Support the ministry financially by clicking here

You can help provide basic supplies - right now some of the greatest needs are black shoes for school (all sizes), underwear (boys & girls size 2T-4T), pajamas (for warmer weather) for toddlers and older children, and all-in-one cloth diapers for the babies home (here's a link for the diapers).  If you are willing to donate items, get them to me by March 9th and I will make sure they get to GSF.   

James 1:27 says, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after widows and orphans in their distress..."

There are so many ways to get involved.  Please, share the love of Christ by putting your faith and religion into action.  Make a difference in the life of another.  Let these children know that they are not forgotten.  Show them that you care.  












  

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Introducing Our Girl

We've been home about a month now and I think it's high time she makes her debut.  Please forgive us for the delay.  My "type A" on-top-of-it personality apparently got left behind in Uganda.

Introducing the newest member of our family, sweet and playful 

Vero!



As you may be able to tell by the picture, she has a bit of a sassy side too.  
Hmm, sassy & sweet?  She just may be a little like her Momma.  


Here is a timeline of where we've been and the steps God faithfully 
guided us through to bring her home to us.  

Fall of 2011 - Seriously begin considering adoption for our family.  This involved lots of prayer and the use of a little thing we call Google.  

January 4, 2012 - feel a nudge from the Lord that there is a 4 year old girl out there waiting to join our family

March 12 - First home study visit - a home study is a report written by a social worker stating whether or not they can recommend the family for adoption.  This just happened to correspond with demo on our bathroom.  "Hello, welcome to our home.  Don't mind the dust or the fact that we haven't showered." Yep, bad planning.  

Adoption paperwork is now my full time job.

May 24 - After three in person visits, more paperwork and lots of training our home study is complete!  

May 25 - Applications to Good Shepherd's Fold and USCIS turned in and mailed off - 
we didn't waste any time!

July 8 - Biometrics at USCIS in the Twin Cities

July & August - Lots and lots of fundraising and prayers for God to make this possible.  Read more about it here and here.  

August 31 - Interview with Jimmy from GSF

September 1 - Meet with a whole group of families who have served at and adopted from GSF.  Seeing this community of believers with their little ones was an amazing experience for us and now more than ever we were hoping and praying that this was the direction the Lord would have for us.

September 14 - Found out we were approved to adopt by the Leadership Team at GSF.  YAY! 


October 1  - Received our referral for Vero, 5 years old at the time.  I look at her birthday and realize the Lord was whispering to me about her when she was 4 years old!
"Soon to the be the proud Momma of 4: 3 homegrown & 1 heart grown!"

November 11 - Meet up with some GSF adoptive families and some past and current missionaries serving there.  



November 20 - Phone call from Claudia.  Seeing all those extra numbers on the caller ID sure made my heart beat!  We have a court date - Dec. 18!

December 12 - Leave for Uganda.  

December 13  - Meet Vero in the Entebbe airport!  I wish we would have taken a picture but it was like 1:00 AM and we were all so very tired (plus the vain side of myself really did not want documentation of how disgusting I look after 30+ hours of travel, thank you very much.)  Here is a picture of her all dressed up the next day. 


December 14 - First court date

December 17 - Second court date

December 20 - Legal Guardianship granted!

December 21 - Went to the passport office to turn in paperwork.  Trying to rush things through before the holidays, we ended up getting our passport by the end of the day.  
Being in Uganda in December definitely had its perks!


December 22 - Medical Exam at IOM

December 24 - Official theme song for our journey to the Pearl of Africa declared: 

10, 000 Reasons


OK, that didn't really happen.  But we were blessed to walk this road with a family who live just down the highway from us in Minneapolis.  As God would have it, they were in UG the same time we were - we went through court dates, embassy appointments, many hours of waiting at the coffee shop across the street from the attorney's office, and the passport office together. Ryan leads worship at a church in the Twin Cities and he led worship a few times at GSF.  This song was always on the list.  

December 25 - Celebrate Christmas in Uganda!




December 27 - Turn in paperwork at the Embassy in Kampala

January 2, 2013 - Interview at the Embassy

January 3 - Pick up the visa from the Embassy 

January 6 - After some panic at the airport in Entebbe, we made our flight, flew to London, then Chicago, and then...


January 7 - Arrived at Home!


Look at all these great people who welcomed us!




If you haven't heard me say it before, thank you to everyone who helped us bring this precious child home.  I am overwhelmed by how many people God has used throughout this process and the variety of ways they've been a blessing.  We will never know this side of heaven just how many people offered prayers on our behalf but we are truly grateful.  We are grateful for every prayer, every word of encouragement, every dollar given, every act of kindness, and every person who walked this road beside us.  
From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you!